Here's the first simple tip which will help you become a more confident person: know what you want.
Most people are looking for ways to become more confident, yet they don't ask themselves the most important question first: what is your goal?
If you don't know what you want, how do you know when you're going to achieve it? Most guys who want to improve their confidence around women say something like "I want to become successful with women". What does it mean for you? What exactly does it mean to be successful with women?
Here are a few examples of good definitions of "I want to become successful with women":
- I'm able to approach every woman I find attractive, no matter where I am.
- I'm in a serious relationship with a girl to whom I have great connection.
- Every day of the week I fuck a different woman.
There's no judging here - we all have different definitions of "being successful with women". Set your own goal. Once you know your goal, you'll know when you achieve it and you'll have a rough idea on how to achieve it.
In the case of the first definition, you have to start approaching women in all situations. Your approaching skills will be very important here so you may find this article - How to Approach Women - very useful.
In the case of the second definition, visit places where you can meet a girl of your type. If you're into intelligent women, visit museums, operas and other alike places. If you're into physically fit women, start jogging in the park, go to gym etc.
In the case of the third definition, night clubs are probably your thing so you need to visit them at least a few times a week to create a "database" of fuck buddies.
Of course the same advice applies to everyone else and every other goal related to self-confidence. We don't talk only about women and sex here.
Say that you're a woman struggling with shyness. As a result of your shyness, you don't have a great job. You want to get a better job, but you're afraid of interviews, getting to know other people and learning new things. What do you really want to achieve?
You want to become comfortable in every work-related situation such as interviews, introducing yourself to your colleagues etc.
Now that you know your specific goal, you can think of ways on how to achieve this goal. In this case, you have to focus on expanding your comfort zone which simply means doing things you're afraid of: attending interviews, getting to know new people, learning new things.
And that's our first simple self-confidence tip. Now it's time for you to specify your goal. Good luck!
